Anne sent me this question:

Could i get a reading, you have permission to post it on your site as well as my reaction to it.
I want to know where my mr. right is ?

The Reading:

Whenever someone asks me a question, I try to answer other questions they might be asking, or answer other questions that might give them a better idea of how good of a feeling i have for their situation (so that they'll know whether my reading was a *hit* or a *miss*).

So I asked where you were right now as far as how you felt about your love-life situation currently. I pulled Hermit, 7 cups, 10 cups, and the Star. Although you're not in a relationship right now, and sometimes you feel lonely and think that being with someone else would make things better, I think you also understand at some level that being single is necessary to knowing/understanding yourself. I do think there are a few guys who you're interested in and who are attracted to you. I think you like the emotional, flirtational back and forth with these people, and you do it with love and with genuine kindness. There's something very independent about you...you love emotional intensity, but like your independence as well (i get this from later cards as well).

Then I asked what kind of relationship would best satisfy the kind of relationship you want and need. I pulled Queen of Swords, Death, Knight of Cups, 4 of wands, and Temperance. You want romance, kindness, sweetness, and the heights and depths of emotional intensity. At the same time, you want a very tight bond with someone. Nothing that is superficial, even though you do want this person to be someone who will go out with you to socialize, and you don't mind having public displays of affection, you also more importantly want the commitment to be there when t here's nobody else around to see it. Again, I'm getting your independent spirit. You are intelligent, a good conversationalist, opinionated, and you want to be respected for those traits. You don't need a macho, controlling guy.

I asked what the person would be like who you would end up having this kind of relationship with. I got king of pentacles, 7 of wands, and ace of cups. I think he'll be the kind of guy who's had to work for what he's got, but he knows how to be successful and handle his material life (the world of money and possessions). He's also a very loving and tender guy. Since he's had to struggle himself to make his achievements, he will appreciate your need for independence.

Your real question was "where is my mr. right," and I do think there's someone around you right now who you have that potential with. It's just a matter of taking the opportunity, putting forth the effort to make it materialize, and don't force things to move too quickly.

Also, although you are independent, I feel like sometimes you have trouble appreciating "alone time." Do that! Go to movies on your own, our out to dinner. Enjoy what it is like to be in your own company, and take full advantage of the opportunities you have to do that. This will also help you in your future relationship. :)

Anne's Response:


Gabby thank you for the reading, you were right in so many ways and have reminded me of why it is important to wait, not just for me, but also for the future Mr. Right. I feel much more optimistic about the future of my love life. Thanks!- anne