Tressa's "Will I Marry?" Question
Posted by Gabby Turner on Wednesday, June 10, 2009 Under: Romantic Love
Tressa asked:
I'm wondering if I will ever marry, and, if so, what will the man be like? I have done horary readings on this subject and would like to see if the reading meshes or not.
My Reading:
I pulled 8 of cups, King of Pentacles, the Fool, and 9 of pentacles initially.
I think yes, you will eventually marry (if that is what you choose to do, and since you obviously want to, then you *will* choose to when the time comes!). You will be able to leave behind the past wherein your relationships did not meet your expectations, or did not lead to the kind of committed married life you were hoping for in order to get to the marriage you desire to have.
The man will be a mature, earthy type. He will be solid, reliable, and successful. But based on other cards I'm pulling about his personality (10 of cups, 7 of cups, Lovers, and 3 of swords), I'm guessing he's not just the typical King of Pentacles type. He will have intense emotions, as well. He will be able to create a happy, loving home with you, but there will be times of jealous, possessiveness, and hurt feelings. You will have a very strong relationship, but there will be times when his heart is broken either by things you have actually done to him or by things he just perceives or fears you have done (such as...dun-dun-dun...cheating). But all in all, he's sturdy, reliable, solid, dependable. He will be loyal to you.
You will feel secure with him, and the relationship you have with him will allow you leisure time that you will use to your benefit. You will feel a little bit torn sometimes between feeling secure and happy with him and feeling like you would like to be able to, like the Fool, have all the freedom you used to have. You might be able to find the fine line that separates the two...using the wealth privileges of the relationship you have with him to go travel, explore what you feel needs to be explored in the world, etc.
I also sense for you that this relationship will sometimes cause you intense worry...it will make you grow up in some ways. There will be a lot of times where you'll feel like, "Well, we've been *here* before emotionally," and in a bad way. But these trials will eventually bring you closer together. You'll learn the give-and-take of a relationship with him very well.
Finally, I asked if there was anything else you might like to hear about this or that would be helpful. I pulled 6 of cups and The Sun. I feel like this might be someone from your past. Someone you remember from your childhood, maybe? But at least your past. I also feel like there will be a child in this relationship (the Sun).
Tressa's Response to the Reading:
That is so amazing. You have no idea. That not only meshes with my horary, but our composite charts and my natal birth chart. Yes, I do believe it is the guy I am currently in love with. He IS a strong earth (Virgo stellium, with Cap Sun), but very moody and jealous, etc. I am freaking out.
And you got my personality so well. I hate to lose my autonomy... I am all about independence, yet I do want to spend my life with my soul mate.
He is of the past, yes. I won't go into detail over the net, but you are dead on.
I am all emotions here.... I just had a horrible day and, well, you made my day, possibly my month! ;) Everything you said makes sense to me. Thank you so much.
I'm wondering if I will ever marry, and, if so, what will the man be like? I have done horary readings on this subject and would like to see if the reading meshes or not.
My Reading:
I pulled 8 of cups, King of Pentacles, the Fool, and 9 of pentacles initially.
I think yes, you will eventually marry (if that is what you choose to do, and since you obviously want to, then you *will* choose to when the time comes!). You will be able to leave behind the past wherein your relationships did not meet your expectations, or did not lead to the kind of committed married life you were hoping for in order to get to the marriage you desire to have.
The man will be a mature, earthy type. He will be solid, reliable, and successful. But based on other cards I'm pulling about his personality (10 of cups, 7 of cups, Lovers, and 3 of swords), I'm guessing he's not just the typical King of Pentacles type. He will have intense emotions, as well. He will be able to create a happy, loving home with you, but there will be times of jealous, possessiveness, and hurt feelings. You will have a very strong relationship, but there will be times when his heart is broken either by things you have actually done to him or by things he just perceives or fears you have done (such as...dun-dun-dun...cheating). But all in all, he's sturdy, reliable, solid, dependable. He will be loyal to you.
You will feel secure with him, and the relationship you have with him will allow you leisure time that you will use to your benefit. You will feel a little bit torn sometimes between feeling secure and happy with him and feeling like you would like to be able to, like the Fool, have all the freedom you used to have. You might be able to find the fine line that separates the two...using the wealth privileges of the relationship you have with him to go travel, explore what you feel needs to be explored in the world, etc.
I also sense for you that this relationship will sometimes cause you intense worry...it will make you grow up in some ways. There will be a lot of times where you'll feel like, "Well, we've been *here* before emotionally," and in a bad way. But these trials will eventually bring you closer together. You'll learn the give-and-take of a relationship with him very well.
Finally, I asked if there was anything else you might like to hear about this or that would be helpful. I pulled 6 of cups and The Sun. I feel like this might be someone from your past. Someone you remember from your childhood, maybe? But at least your past. I also feel like there will be a child in this relationship (the Sun).
Tressa's Response to the Reading:
That is so amazing. You have no idea. That not only meshes with my horary, but our composite charts and my natal birth chart. Yes, I do believe it is the guy I am currently in love with. He IS a strong earth (Virgo stellium, with Cap Sun), but very moody and jealous, etc. I am freaking out.
And you got my personality so well. I hate to lose my autonomy... I am all about independence, yet I do want to spend my life with my soul mate.
He is of the past, yes. I won't go into detail over the net, but you are dead on.
I am all emotions here.... I just had a horrible day and, well, you made my day, possibly my month! ;) Everything you said makes sense to me. Thank you so much.
In : Romantic Love